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Good (Thursday) Morning
- January 26th, 2005

Welcome to the world of fatherhood. I think that was what Kaylee was trying to tell me at 2 O'clock in the morning. She woke up right at midnight again for her feeding. Perfect. Just like clockwork. She drank her bottle and went right to sleep again. But then sometime around 2:00am I heard something that woke me. I laid there for a few minutes and sure enough, she started crying. Naomi and I both got up and tried to comfort her. Her diaper did not need changing and she did not appear to have a fever or show signs of sickness. But she was just a little cranky and restless. We finally put her in the bed between us and Naomi eventually fell asleep but Kaylee and I were wide awake. Eventually I laid her on a big pillow and carried her to the hallway outside of our bathroom. There is a little night light there. Kaylee and I laid on the ground and looked at each other all night. She just would not sleep. Around 5:00am I changed her diaper. Naomi got up to check on us. That put a smile right on Kaylee's face. Kaylee just loves Naomi. It's so awesome. I can play with Kaylee and she will have a great time. But the minute she see's Naomi she gets this big smile, sticks out her tongue, and starts to laugh. It's neat to see little Kaylee get excited when she see's Naomi. Well, I gave Kaylee a bottle of warm water and within minutes she was asleep. Same with Naomi. No bottle for her. But fast asleep.

Daphne told everyone that we might have nights like this for a little while. She said that it is possible that the babies will have memories that upset them. I'm sure that waking up in a strange room is a bit scary. And the truth is we still look funny to her. We talk funny. And well, we probably smell a little funny too.

It's now 7:45am on Thursday morning. I've taken a shower and my two girls are still sleeping.

Yesterday Naomi began to feel sick. Maybe a bad cold or the beginning of a flu. She started taking her medicine. I hope she sleeps for a while this morning.

I will wait for her to wake up and then I am heading down to the second floor to get some breakfast. Yes! I'll have an omelet. Well done please. I might grab a few rolls and some fried rice. If I am still hungry I'll have some dim sum. We have learned that the key to eating here in China is to load up on the breakfast. Otherwise you take a chance with the rest of the meals. So far we have enjoyed the food. But we are cautiously paranoid. We feel comfortable with the breakfast so we eat a lot. But we usually go light on the rest of the meals. BTW, the pizza last night was not so good. I think they forgot to put the tomato sauce on it.

Today there is an optional trip to an embroidery factory. They say it's very interesting and there is plenty of shopping opportunities. We will have to wait to see how everyone feels. We skipped the shopping trip yesterday because Naomi and Kaylee were sick so we might have to skip today's trip as well.

I will try to find some time to take pictures of the area surrounding the hotel. It is fascinating. Traffic is crazy. Even the cabs in NY follow certain directional guidelines. But here the cars just seem to turn in any direction they choose. You have to be extremely careful when you are out walking. I've seen several people on bikes pulling old carts. And I saw a man walking down the street holding on to two long handles pulling a cart. There are a lot of bikes. But what is interesting is they are old, raggedy, and look like they were built in the 40's.

I hope you don't mind me rambling on. These emails are more for my benefit than for those I send them to. I find it very helpful to be able to write down my thoughts. This whole experience is a bit overwhelming and I guess this is my way of relaxing a little.

It sounds like the girls are waking up...

Mark (Naomi & Kaylee)

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